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Does everything feel too heavy? Take control of your everyday life with a simple exercise


Do you feel like there is never enough time? There are studies, household chores, hobbies, and possibly a job. On top of that, you are expected to rest, take care of daily tasks, and spend time with friends.

If you want to gain a better sense of control over your everyday life, try this short and simple exercise. It helps you see what your daily life is made up of and recognize what drains your energy and what restores it.

Exercise: The Everyday Backpack

Let’s imagine your everyday life as a backpack. It cannot hold an unlimited amount of items—only as much as there is space for. The straps might carry an overly heavy load for a while, but if this continues for too long, they will eventually break.

For this exercise, you will need a pen and paper or a drawing app on your phone or computer.

  • First, draw a backpack. Begin filling it with different elements of your everyday life, such as studies, work, hobbies, time spent with loved ones, daily chores, and so on.
  • How does the backpack feel now that the basic building blocks of your daily life are packed inside? Do you feel that you are able to carry it?
  • If you remove all the things that bring joy and help you recover, lighter items are replaced by heavier ones. The load increases, and the backpack straps may break. Make sure your backpack includes things that bring you energy and help you relax.
  • Think about how you could pack your everyday backpack so that you have enough energy for both studying and other aspects of daily life.
  • Create a new version of the backpack. What would you like to change? What would you like to make more space for? What could be reduced, delegated, or perhaps removed altogether?

 

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